My suggestion is that you take some time before you discuss your feelings with your friend. At 15, your hormones are somewhat still out of whack for lack of a better term. Take some time to see if these feelings are actually true feelings. In this situation, you're dealing with someone who not only may not have the same feelings about you as you do for him, but you're also bringing up a sexuality issue. I'm assuming he's around the same age as you, and frankly, he may not be mature enough to handle the situation. This is a touchy subject and the implications here extend beyond just your feelings. Just call me Dr. Albie.
Thanks for making parts of my paragraph bold. I wasn't joking though, I was being serious. He's only 15, and I'm guessing his friend is only 15, too. I would consider a 15 year old a boy, I guess I could say a "young man" if saying boy offends you. This is a mature situation, and I would it prefer if we can keep this conversation at a mature level.
Has your best friend ever had a girlfriend? Also, does he talk a lot about chicks or is that just avoided? It should be pretty obvious if he's straight.
I don't know if the obvious nature is necessarily true especially at age 15. That's still a relatively young age, and it wouldn't be uncommon if the majority of teens haven't had that sort of relationship. Note your location: TheBeastlyNinja's bathroom, collecting hair samples. Enough said
I just know that when I was 15, me and my friends were talking about poon. If we weren't I'd have suspected something (not that it's a bad thing). Also, I'm completely comfortable with my sexual feelings towards thebeastlyninja.
I guess my point is that everyone develops at different speeds so I wouldn't use that one factor to exclude or include someone. Now I know why he's called thebeastlyninja.
wait, is that a typo or short for poonani? and yeah, I'm 15 and my friend is definitely gay and I know me and my friend are definitely Bi. I think, at 15 you may not know if your definitely gay or bi, but you can know your not 100% into women. I wouldn't come out publicly yet anyway, because as a bisexual you don't need people to know, you can just experiment, and until you find a boy that you actually like, not just one you are currently looking at a different way, you should think about coming out.
Firstly, let me set a few things straight. Yes, I am 15, yes my friend is 15. I am most definately more mature than most kids in my year (as is my friendship group, including this person). I know that I am bisexual. You can tell me that I'm only 15, but that doesn't come into it. I can't really explain it, but I just know. This person is not obviously hetrosexual, nor are they obviously gay, that's my real problem, he gives no real indication as to his sexuality. Oh and thanks for your input Albie, good to see you posting again
I just know, ok? You don't have to believe me. I don't want to come out publicly, I only want a select few people to know for now. Too late.
Are you sure you really like him? I know you've gone into this in the past few pages. You could probably just be in a phase sort of thing. I mean, recently, i liked one of my best (girl) friend. i thought about it and actually it was just a thing and i got over it.
Not yet, at the moment the only person I want to tell is the person I'm in love with. Just got back from my psyciatrist (never thought I'd be typing this >_<) She thinks that, based on what I've told her and her past experiences with these situations, I should tell this person in the not-too-distant future. That I should just sit down and talk with him about it, and see how he reacts. She said that if I thought that this person would be repulsed, and that I would lose my friendship with him, that she would recommend not telling him unless I was confident that he shared those feelings. I think I know what needs to be done.
